I was born this way

Certain Biblical injunctions are more difficult for us as individuals than are others, due to our backgrounds, but the commands are not therby eliminated or lessened.

God still expects us to do waht he says, which means that by his power we can do it.

He does not ask us to do anything he will not enable us to do.

It is truth. I have emotional imbalance, especially when PMS is coming. I get frustrated and agitated. I get negative and emotional. I also afraid , conflict avoider, men pleaser. Afraid of confrontation.

I cannot always blame of my upbringing or blame of PMS too.

I need to look for specific sins involved, call them by biblical names and help myself to see that God called for repentance.

When this happens, everyone breathes a sigh of relief( especially the one in sin) because a solution is in view.

the solution is always to identify the SIN, REPENT of it, start relying on GOD's grace adn formulate a plan to overcome the sin.

My SIn:

conflict avioder
Men pleaser( afraid how people think of me)
a bigger heart to love people who is difficult to love
afraid to confrontation( speaking the truth to people)Afraid to get hurt.

Only God can do help me!

BY faith, I can broke this cycle.

one of the greatest examples in Old testament to show that we are not bound by our families or circumstances is that the kings of Judah.

Hezekiah was one of the few good kings in the lineage of David, but both his father and grandfather were evil before him.
However, he broke the cycle.

then, both his son Manasseh and his grandson Amon were very wicked. Next came Josiah, perhaps the greatest king in the history of the divided kingdom.

In spite of their gene pools and the terrible examples of their families, both Hezekiah and Josiah rose above wehat life had dealt to them.

They righteous choices and were able to change the destiny to which they fell heir.

So Veron, U can break your cycle.

Your cycle of emotional imbalance, Your frustration, your conflict avioder, men pleaser, your insecuity, your lack of love . God will help you to break it when you decided to change and ask God to help you.

Lord, I need you. I want to change and want to repent.
I wan to live a life worthy of your calling and please yu in every way,
Bearing fruits in every good work( family, parenting, tuitioning, art, ministry)
I pray also I will grow in the knowledge of you. so that i will be strengthend with all power according to your glorious might.
Lord, so that I will have great endurance, patience and joyfully giving thatnks to Father, who has qualified me to share inheritance of the saints in the kingdom of Light.

In Jesus holy name,
Amen